KARMA

KARMA

Let's talk about KARMA today! The very next time when you have decided to scold or insult someone, do think back about yourself. As by scolding someone a BITCH, you might be the QUEEN OF THE BITCH!!!

Oop! *haha* That, was a conversation that I had overheard in office. But I got to admit that in life there is KARMA. So I never believe in CURSING even though I do CURSE in the past.

Brother Ming had mentioned this to me once. In life it is easier to CURSE than to FORGIVE, to bear GRUDGES than to LET GO, to take REVENGE than to FORGIVE someone *I admit* BUT god created all living things with LOVE not HATRED. So that is when KARMA kicks in.

Afterall, I know when KARMA hits, the number of people being hurt are unexpectable.

Oh! by the way, who say conincidence is hard to meet? I met Amber (ex elite contestant) in Bugis Junction - Seiyu *Haha* still as pretty as before and whatmore, she is a freelance model now *cheers*

Hope everything is fine for everyone! Take care!

Explaination is a way of Communciation

Explaination is a way of Communication

I remembered once in my life, God had enlightened me alot in belief. Nothing in this world is yours unless you work hard to sow it. No mistake is a mistake once you had learnt from it. When a misunderstanding occured, it might not ever be an misunderstanding but just someone's misbelief or implusive anger over intangible truth so the only way to let communication kick in is to explain your doings as to untangle the knots.

If by explaining is guilty, then I think in this world there will be more than just two world wars. Cos in daily life, there tend to be misunderstanding. Misunderstanding between colleagues, family members, friends and ever between your loved one.

Please do not expect misunderstanding to wear off by its own cos it will not happen at all. Talking about it will aid you to solve misunderstanding that happened ever 10 years ago. Your kid will not understand your action of caning if you do not explain the reason why you are punishing him.

So do talk about things that you are unhappy before you are the one creating all the pain off the intangible truth created by yourself.

Come to think is it worth it?

Anyway, I decided to touch on this topic cos of a show I watched yesterday on TV. The Chinese - Wong Fei Hong. Wong Fei Hong made a grave mistake of causing great injury to a poor boy on the street by going against his promise to his Dad that he will not use a special kungfu that his Dad had taught him. Due to this, he was sent by his Dad as a punishment to Shaolin temple and his Dad had made a promise never to teach him any kungfu anymore. But in front of his wife's grave, he explained his purpose of doing so and 13th Aunt overheard it.

She explained to Wong Fei Hong that his Dad is doing this for his own welfare as Shaolin temple could better groom and teach him the right ways.

That is the problem with orient parent. Keeping everything to their heart seen like a welfare to their kids, but it is not after all. Imagine you are Wong Fei Hong, but no one explained things to you. Will you be able to strike a balance in life during your growing up in your childhood?

See the power of communicate is to everyone around you!

Misunderstanding

Misunderstanding

I had a bad feeling after I read something off a wedding forum few days back and it is only then I know that I am enaging the same Bridal shop company as her. But I kept telling myself I might just be too sensative. But I was wrong. Afterall I could sense her anger in her blog.

Unknowingly, I do not know if her previous March entry was actually pointing at me. I just want to peace things off by putting up an explaination here.

First, an outdoor reception is so common that almost all couples out there will opt for it (Am I right?). Ok, let's leave it aside. The reason to do it at my aunt's condo (The Clearwater), was because she is the only close relative that is living in a Condo.

And this reception was nearly called off cos in the first place I did not want it to happen. It was my FH who insisted on it (If you need to verify, call me and I can ask him to speak to you.) We got into a huge quarrel due to that too.

As for the catering company that we are using, (If it is the same again, then I really can't help it...) is actually where my FH is working at. So we are entitled to a good package. And halfly this is why we decide to so an outdoor reception since we got this entitlment must well make good use of it.

For my wedding bands with Fairy Inc. I was deciding to get my wedding band from GoldHeart as we have a $100 voucher. But in the end, we decided to do it with Fairy Inc. was because it is custom-made and self design. And it is within our budget... why not right? And I got to know about this company via the wedding forum. And it was my FH 's idea to want to do it there.

Lastly the bridal shop selection. In the beginning I was scouting in Marina Square. And my FH was total upset by the hard selling of Whitelink and we nearly done it with Bridal Concept. BUT because I know that my Aunt was in bride makeup line for more than 10 years, I decided to call her and coincidently, she is working at Pan Pacific Hotel for a newly wed that day. And we met her and her family up at Marina Square while she was having dinner with her family during a break.

Spoke to her about what we had seen and she decided to call Annabelle up who attended to us and we got back to the shop and 'retalk' cos now, I am standing as her colleague's niece statue now. And she gave us a good package (sorry I can't give the details of the package). But my FH was still in doubt so we decided to scout around the next weekend.

Where we were caught in between Milan and Whitelink. And the decision to do with Whitelink was because they gave me a MTM gown and Milan don't. Whatmore, my aunt is going to be my makeup artist and it is easier to go with her time at work. And she knew the photographer too. Whatmore, I trust Annebelle as she is very frank with us.

For the above story, she can check with whoever she wants. My conscience is clear. The reason of me spelling all these out was because I do not want this issue to detoirate further the relationship of me and a friend(s).

I admit that I am reading her blog. And I got to know about her big day thru her blog. But seriously, there was no mention on the bridal shop company that she is using. And What ROM idea of hers in details. I am basically working basic on me and my FH budget. What's so wrong?

What happened in the past was my fault I couldn't deny it. I just hope everyone will view an issue as an issue. I just do not hope that someone will throw her uphappiness into teh crowd without getting the true story out. This is being unfair to the other party.

All I hope that this will peace off the misunderstanding...

Decision Made!

Decision Made!

After all thoughts, I had finally made up my mind. Ok! Should I say long I had made up my mind but my Dear is the one that put me in the spot of thinking so hard again.

I had decided to engage WhiteLink for my bridal package. Had called Annebelle to inform her that me and my boyfriend will be placing a 50% deposit in hard cash. Ok! Call it silly for doing so, but I am not to blame, is HIM...

Dear HATED to use his credit card for no good reasons and he is so stubborn with his no-no credit on future money that he wanted to use hard earned cash for all payment unless we are left with no choice. There is pros and cons, I'm not going into details. Afterall, He is paying and I am the one enjoying the service.

Got quite a good package from WhiteLink as my aunt is working in there as a makeup artist. And Annebelle is being very kind to us. But still I felt that the number of photos is really too little. Hopefully she can up it to 40+... haha *fat hope*

Anyway, for that it is quite settled. And I will get my gown and my Dear's suit ready with WhiteLink by August. And in the meantime, this coming month is Wedding Bands Month. Got an appointment with Fairy Inc. Will be meeting Sandra to discuss about our rings. Gosh! I wan DIAMONDS!!!

*joking* The rings are going to be simple and presentable as I want it to be low maintanence. Sandra had mentioned in time to come, if we decided to prefer to change the colour, all we need to do is to pay a minimum sum to change for example the yellow gold to rose gold or via visa... How great!

Ok! that's for the updates on my preparation of my path to marriage. Ciao!

Daddy's Girl

Daddy's Girl

Never did I expect to receive an email from my dad. Never did I expect that I will be tearing the moment I read the second sentence of his email. Never did I expect my dad to say he love me.

It might be a short email but it carried alot of feeling all the way back to me. Tears are still dropping non-stop now. I asked myself, am I this useless to cry or I missed my Dad too much? I guess it is both.

Daddy's kidney stone problem is back. That is what had been mentioned over his email. It might be an old problem to him but I am still worry for him. Glad that he is coming back to Singapore soon this month.

For 22 years in my life, I had never missed my Dad so much. So much that it ached in my heart to see him having to work so hard just for the family.

I pray to God to take his pain away from him. I pray to God to bless him with good health. I pray to God to shelter him from the sun and rain. I pray to God to bless him with success with all his hard work. I pray to God to let him be back with us soon as the family needs him...

New Look!

New Look!

I had just finish revamping my blog. Felt so satify about it. Updated it to the maximum! Haha... Checkout the ELITE girls over friendster. How I miss all of them. Those were the days when I really feel tired but happy working. Hope that there will be a get together soon. Really wants to catch up with all of them.

I was going through my past post. Reading it really make me feel sad. I can't believe that my past was so dark and unhappy compared to now.

Things had not improved but I had learned to take things easy. Not going to fuss about things that had not happen yet. I'm looking forward to my ROM date.

Trying hard to keep to my diet. Pray that I will be back to my normal build soon!!! *pray*

Let's Talk about Sex, Baby!

Let's Talk about Sex, Baby!

Ok! If you think that I am going to start on another intoxic story about sex, think again! Cos this is a very healthy topic that I am going to talk about. Guess rated healthy to adults only. Haha.

Chance upon this story last night on the newspaper. A jobless Adam strangled Eve to death and Adam confessed to the murder by calling the police after the action.

The reason, cos Adam couldn't accept the fact that Eve is not turning back from her wrong action despite that Adam had forgave Eve. And the wrong action is, having another man in Eve's life.

And my question, is Eve really wrong for doing so? But again, I am totally against the idea that Eve broke the news of this unacceptable releationship on Adam's birthday.

As for why I felt that Eve was not totally in wrong, my penny of thought as followed...

Eve married Adam for more than 6 years. Adam is a simple man with a simple mind but Eve is someone who want more than simple. Adam is someone who can never give Eve the satisfactory in sex. Eve tried the sex communcation but still Adam was against the idea of going the way that Eve wanted.

As times went by, action on bed was slowly reduced to zero. But this doesn't mean that Eve had given up hope on pleasing herself with what she wanted. And this was also the time that Eve met a married man in her work place and it was also the time when she felt the reborn of satisfactory. This is the type of man she always wanted as her long time sex partner. Someone who is all game for all type of fun. And most importantly, this man gave her the101% on bed. And Eve got addicted to him.

Ok. Story ended here. Questions as followed...

Man likes to test drive a car before purchase. And they prefer to "test drive" their partner before that one knee down investment. But can woman "test drive" a man before accepting him?

If a woman kept chasing the hubby for sex and the hubby only complain about tired after work, and he said that he rather stick to the TV for more entertainment etc. Is she wrong to seek for another place of paradise?

No one is always right and no one is always wrong. To me, if I have to chase my man for sex, I guess one day, I will just give up and go to bed on time myself.

I don't blame Eve for jumping over the wall to seek for another man but I think that she is too much for breaking the new to Adam on his brithday and she even told her Adam the whole great sex process that she had with that married man.

Like what I had said, Adam is a simple man with a simple mind who had fall into his lowest peak in life. Eve, instead of giving him morale support, gave him more stress than any normal man can take it.

What can I say, a good marriage is more than just tender, loving, care.

My Weekend

My Weekend

Another week had just gone by. As usual, Saturday was a "lazing at home" day for me. Dear went to work early in the morning and I only managed to open my eyes around 12pm. Clear some of my things and settled down to watch "Chicago" which I asked Dear to rent for me. Only then I found out that I had watched this show -_-" What a waste of money.

Shortly after late 10pm I decide to spring Dear's a small suprise... Yes, 9 April is the day that he turns 29... Thinking hard where to get a cake at this weird hours, in the end I got dressed and got my mission completed with a huge success. Please do not ask me whereI got the cake cos I am not going to tell any living soul! Haha... Whatmore, Dear commented that the cake is nice... Haha.

Guess is the thought that counts. But Dear don't look that appreciative that night... think he is too tired to think of anything else. Hai. In the end, we dropped deeply into the dreamworld without saying goodnight.

As promise, I woke up early to join Dear at work in Goodrich. Overall, it was fun as I was asked to sell chin chow... haha. One bowl for 50cents... Sales was so good =p

After work, Dear dropped by home to bath and change before we went to Marina Square to shop. We had been there so many time that I am feeling abit sick of it liao... But no choice... we are only left with weekend to settle our ROM thingy.

Shortly after, Dear's friend called to ask us to join them for prawning... Haha... so long I had not been doing that. Since it was his big day, I left it to him to decide to go or not to go.

Met Jermie and family... 2 cute but naughty boys *haha* I think if next time my kids are to be like them, I will just committed sucide. After the long hours of prawning, we headed down to Lau Pa Sut to eat dinner.

Headed home, bath, brewed tea for that lazy pig, and force him to change and that is how I ended my Sunday.

And tell you what, today I am just too tired to work that is why I am writing such a long naggy post. Haha...

Have a good day!

Wedding Bands at Fairy Inc.

Wedding Bands at Fairy Inc.

Had went through all my friend's blogs. And now staring at mine, I realised that this lazy me had stop putting up photos and pictures. Gosh! I think I really have to do something about. And I am going to fill all of you up on What my Tatty bears, Bride and Groom looks like ... ...



Cute right? I had decided to use them for our solemnisation table. And on the day of customary marriage as the car decoration. So sweet of Dear to make the extra trip down during work to get it.

As for the trip to Fairy Inc, we kind of set our mind on a pair of ring for me and him. I will have a combination of rose gold and white gold. And Dear will be having a combination of yellow gold and white gold. And I planned to request for diamond on my wedding band (Haha... I can imagine Dear's expression =p). And we will have engraving in the inner of the ring.

I do feel good there. Sandra was very patience and she was not pushy. Whatmore, frank.. she tell us everything and try to meet our desire and budget. And rings in Fairy Inc. comes in good quality with good weight that is durable for long time wearing. Sandra shared we us some other couples ideas. Guess we are going to do it there... Got to wait and see if we do spot any other nicer one. But definately we will be settling our wedding band by next week.

Fairy Inc.

Fairy Inc.

Had a SUPER busy day at work! Finally got things cleared up. Had lunch with my Manager today... For the first time we really have a carefree and simply talk. Met my Boss when I when in to drop something on my Manager desk and he complimented me! What a day!

Later on, Dear is going to pick me up and we are heading to Fairy Inc. to have a look at custum-made wedding band! If you are to think that I am a very hard to please bride-to-be, please ask again... This sweet idea was suggest by my hubby-to-be!

Oh! And lastly, we had book our JP for our outdoor ROM. Couldn't get that great DAVID but we got Mr. Royston Low Hee Tang. Dear said that he is a very friendly and jovial man... One thing off the checklist... more to go!